Paper and A Pen .

Fear !!!

2008-05-18T08:05:00.001-07:00

Fear :-
Fear it seems is a pscycological mechanism.Every body has fears .Even the bold fears. What we call fear emanates from the fact that your mind starts reacting to percieved danger.

Is Fear Necessary :-
Fear it seems is the mechanism that protects us from our stupid acts and danger.If there were no fear we will become unresponsive to danger singnals.For example if there were no fear you may jump from the 10th floor and do other stupid things.

Is it necessary to remove fear :-
All fears are not bad as stated above.It is only when the fear goes abnormal that we should be worried.If you start to get afraid of even the small things ,fear seems to go bad.

According to my view

"It is normal to get afraid of abnormal things
It is abnormal to get afraid of normal things."

How to take control of fear :-

Following are the things that could be help.

1. Most normal fears will reduce if you do the job you fear.It is just a caution that your body shows .It can be overcome by doing.

2. Many a time analysis helps.You classify your fear and see whether it is normal or abnormal and deal.

3.Think of God's help if you are afraid of uncertainities.Life is meant to live happily.So God would always have provided a solution to your problems.So take board in that thought.

4.See if you are attempting to do any abnormal task or work.This may trigger your normal fear mechanisms.

5.Try to remove wrong ideas ,egos and superiority and inferiority complexes.This will definitely have an effect on abnormal fear.

6.Remove the unrealistic assumptions that you have which will reduce your abnormal fear.

7.Do not always try to be at the top of the world.Accept the fact that we may not be number one everytime,we may not be the center of attraction everytime,we may also lose,we may not be popular every time etc.This will have your effect on your abnormal fears.

8.Do not think that it is because of you that the world runs.

9.To remove abnormal fear you could try to expose yourself to the fear stimulus in step by step fashion.Little by little you increase the contact with the stimulus.

10.Do not try to change everything in life .We may not be able to change everything but we can definitely deal with them.For example we may not be able to reduce floods but we could take some measures to deal with it,to minimise the losses ,to protect life and property.Please note that all things could be dealt with which could not be changed.Dealing is possible than changing.

11..Above all believe in yourself and God .That will give you lots of changes.

12.If there is too much abnormal fear that affects your life consult a doctor.

Also read this for information
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fear

Disclaimer :The ideas expressed here are the peronal opinion of the author.It may not work for your situation sometimes.It does not represent medical advice. To get medical help consult your doctor.

Marriage is blissful!!!

2008-05-18T05:22:00.000-07:00

Blogger : Aparnaa

Blog : Lunch time Arathttai

Post id : Click here.

Subject : Quotes on Marriage

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Marriage is Blissful :

Marriages are made in heaven.

But so again, are thunder and lightning.

If you want your wife to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say,

talk in your sleep.

Marriage is a grand and divorce is at least hundred grand costly.

So if you are married stay married and if you are not stay not_married.

Married life is very frustrating.

In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens.

In the second year, the woman speaks and thea man listens.

In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.

When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing:

either the car is new or the wife.

A couple came upon a wishing well. The wife leaned over, made a wish and threw in a penny. The husband decided to make a wish .But he leaned over too much, fell into the well, and drowned. The wife was stunned for a moment but then smiled, "It really works!"

Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say.

After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish.

Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical, and a good cook. But the law allows only one wife.

I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry.

That must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste.

A man is incomplete until he is married.

After that, he is finished.

Marriage is when a man and woman become as one;

the trouble starts when they try to decide which one.

Cricket Chronicles !!!

2008-05-09T21:15:00.000-07:00

Blogger : Karthik Sriram
Blog : Extraordinarily ordinary
Post id : Click here
Post subject : His experience with cricket.
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Cricket Chronicles
Over the last two weekends, apart from IPL, the other momentous thing to happen was that I got back to playing cricket. Before the last time I did remotely close to playing cricket were one-on-one matches I used to play with my neighbor sometime in 2003, before I broke my wrist.

As happens in every Indian guy's life, Cricket was initially shovelled down my throat - mainly during the World Cup in 1992 and the infamous 1 ball 22-run match, which left everyone I knew - starting from my friend sitting beside me in class to the paal-kaaran (milkman) condemning England. And then, my migration to Madras happened and I joined PSBB - the school which opened my eyes to cricket, and various other things ;)

Summer cricket coaching became a habit and I soon found out that I sucked as a fielder in circle. I was good at slips and in the outfield and nowhere else. I briefly flirted with wicket-keeping, but then was not a great success at it too. But to compensate for all this, I did bat well. The place where I lived in Chennai was like 15 kilometers away from my school with the result that none of my school friends lived close by. My only pastime became seasoning my cricket bat by hitting a ball inside a sock, hung from a ceiling hook. This became such an obsession that by the end of my second summer, I was able to hit 25-30 balls on a trot with a stump instead of the bat. All this did contribute to my batting, but whenever it came to school matches, whoever was the captain, had the senses to ask me to open the batting and while fielding, I was there in the slips for the first 5-6 overs after which I was sent to third man where you hardly get the ball (especially if you play on matted wickets).

All this cricket, where, I was physically playing the game ended with my 9th after which I was more or less the armchair critic, commenting on how Tendulkar should have played an Akram delivery, while munching on kadalai and reading the Hindu! High school flitted past and I become one of those SVCE makkal (junta). It was here I got my first rude shock. I remember it was in my first semester when we cut a Basic Civil Engineering class and had match with another first year class. I alanjified for opening the batting and did get to open - thankfully, the guy who was captain-cum-cut-adikkum-idea-giver knew me from PSBB and so knew about my batting. But what happened next is the stuff nightmares are made of. 3 full tosses straight down the leg-side saw me connecting with nothing but air. And then with extraordinary luck I edged the fourth ball and tried to get a run only to see the other guy not respond. Run out for a duck and somehow, after that, I never wanted to play cricket again. Every good friend of mine in SVCE used to play and they called me too (out of courtesy, as they used to plan their cricket activities in front of me or they really wanted me to play, I don't know), but somehow the fear of once more becoming a cropper made me skip.

BE was done with and I became one of those typical tambrahm guys, coming to the US for MS. Here cricket was a much bigger thing. My room-mate and good friend here turned out to be a fanatical cricketer and seeing his and his team-mates fanaticism made me loathe playing cricket more.But as they say, Life is not without surprises, I have come to know a group of indi pasanga (people close to me know my paasam for these indi pasanga) and have started playing cricket with them. Its tough to listen to aaram se, aah, rukh, umpire se baahar kinda pechu, but these guys play just for the fun of it and its nice to do that.Hope I'm not that lazy to give up on this new found activity.

UPDATE: Its nice to see that I've not lost my once predominant offside play and my wrists are strong enough for me to flick balls on middle stump to fine leg, once again, after April 16th, 2003. And so far, I haven't scored a duck. Touchwood! But on the flip side, my ground fielding is not good, my bowling is horrible. Have not yet had the courage to try my spin - have been bowling donkey droppers so far.

Moments !!!

2008-05-07T07:53:00.000-07:00

Blogger : Sudhakar (me)

Blog : Take a Break at anytime

Post Id : Click here

Subject : Moments in Real life,Inspiration

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SQUIRREL
I was enjoying coffee at the backdoor garden at my native village.A wonderful village at the foothills of western gaths .A view takes you to the a beautiful mountain bathed in clouds.Small rain drops that drizzled made the place look like heaven to me.That was the time when I met an unusual friend.A small squirrel.It was a little older than a new born. Possibly it got lost from its mother and searching her.It was a little scared on seeing me ,but was not comfortable moving too much. So it settled down without running, at the place itself.I ran inside took a small piece of cut tomato .I tried to give it to the squirrel .First it was a little hesitant but later came before to taste it. Once it smelled it ,it turned its head.I tried to feed it in its mouth .It turned its head ,looked angry, like a lover in anger who turns her head(writers imagination only!).
Then it did a peculiar thing it started indicating with its both hands in its mouth like scratching nuts.I did not understand first .But later understood it as indication of something to eat like nut.
I went and fetched the nut and when I came back the mother had found the baby which it took hold of , underneath it and started moving away into the trees.
A casual friend !!!!!.A beautiful time to remember.I still carry the picture of that ……..
Moment!!!
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There may be some small moments in life which are really wonderful,different,unusual,a lesson or anything .These are the moments in life which we should remember to learn,enjoy,love and store in minds.These moments do not give you any money ,wealth or power but these provide the essence of life.They give you the spirit ,enlightenment and entertainment,that you deserve.This heading tries to bring some of the best moments in life.(may be mine ,may be yours).
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Azhagiya Kavidaikal !!!

2008-05-07T07:09:00.000-07:00

Blogger : Dreamzz Avathar
Blog : Close your Eyes
Post Id : Click Here
Subject :Azhagiya Kavidaikal ( Beautiful poems)
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எழுத்து அறிவித்தவன்
இறைவன் ஆவான்

கண்ணீரை கற்று தந்தவள்

காதலி ஆவாள்

இரவு முழுதும்
இனிய கனவுகள் தரும்
காதல்..

விழிகள் நெடுக
முட்கள் தைத்து தூங்க சொல்வாள்
காதலி..

சிந்தனை சிறையில் இருந்தேன்..
'ஹலோ.. என்ன பகல் கனவா?'
கனவே வந்து தட்டி எழுப்பியது
நான் ஒருவனாகத்தான் இருக்கமுடியும்!

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ஓராயிரம் யானைகள் கொன்றால்
பரணியாம்!
!என்னாயிரம் கனவுகள் வென்றதால்
காதலியோ?

மொழிகளற்ற கவிதை
உனற்கான என் காதல்...
எப்படி சொல்லுவேன் அதை
ஒற்றை மொழி கவிதையில்..
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எதிரே நடக்கையில்
ஏதேச்சையாக
உந்தன் விழிக்கத்திகளை
வீசி செல்கின்றாய்..
தன் மேல் தான் எறிவதாக சொல்லி
துடிக்க மறுத்து அடம் செய்கின்றது
எனது இதயம்!

நீ நடந்து என் பக்கம் வர
உன் காலடி தடங்களில்
தெரிந்த காதல் சுவடுகள்..
நீ என்னை விட்டு விலகி
செல்லும் தடங்களில் மட்டும்
தெரியாமலேயே போனது..
நிழல்கள் தங்கிவிட
நிஜங்கள் நீங்கிவிடுமோ?

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ஓர் நாள் ஓர் மாதம்
என குறித்து வைத்து சொன்னாலும்
எல்லா நாளும் எல்லா மாதங்களும்
எனை குறித்து வைக்காமலேயே
கொன்று போகுது உன் காதல்.

இன்னும் ஒரு வருடம் வரும்
இன்னும் ஒரு காதலர் தினம் வரும்
இன்னும் ஒரு காதல் கூட வரலாம்..
ஆனால்..
நீ வரத்தானடி நான் காத்திருக்கின்றேன்..

Newsmericks !!!-Sir Edmund Hillary.

2008-05-04T10:19:00.000-07:00

Blogger : Aparna Ray
Blog Id : Newsmericks
Post Id : Click here
Subject : The blog deals with News in limericks form-A different Flavour

Blog Dictum as stated by Aparnaa Ray

Perhaps in the limerick form,
You always seek laughs as per norm.
But I feel this style,
Can be quite versatile,
It can amuse, analyse, or inform!This is the blog Dictum

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Blog Post :- Sir Edmund Hillary.
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As explorer, he was the best;
With Tenzing he climbed the world's crest.
The world at his feet,
Resplendent, replete,
As he stepped on that mountain - Everest.

Guardian 11/01/08: Sir Edmund Hillary, first man to the top of the world, dies at 88.

Monday Morning Inspitation -A Mom and a Child!!!

2008-05-04T09:47:00.000-07:00

Blogger : Shalini Gowrishankar .
Blog : Random Thoughts
This post link : Click here
Subject : Inspirational Short story
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She had been shopping with her Mom in Wal-Mart. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Wal-Mart. We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day.

I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories were a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.

Her voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in, "Mom, let's run through the rain," she said.

"What?" Mom asked. "Let's run through the rain!" She repeated.

"No, honey. We'll wait until it slows down a bit," Mom replied.

This young child waited about another minute and repeated: "Mom, let's run through the rain." "We'll get soaked if we do," Mom said. "No, we won't, Mom.

That's not what you said this morning," the young girl said as she tugged at her Mom's arm."This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?"

"Don't you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, 'If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!"

The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn't hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes.Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say.

Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child's life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith. "Honey, you are absolutely right. Let's run through the rain. If GOD let's us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing," Mom said. Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles.

They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars. And yes, I did. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing.

Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories...So, don't forget to make time and take the opportunities to make memories everyday. To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven.

A friend sent this to me to remind me of life.I HOPE YOU STILL TAKE THE TIME TO RUN THROUGH THE RAIN. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them. Keep in touch with your friends; you never know when you'll need each other.

URAINDHU PONA MALLIGAL......................... FROZEN JASMINES

2008-05-04T09:27:00.000-07:00

The Blogger Name : Compassion Unlimited.

The Blog id : Compassion Unlimited from a Tamizhan

The Blog link for

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Subject : Short story

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Madurai,down south in Tamizh Nadu is a unique place.Wonderful temple which mesmerises visitors to this place, is unique.The lanes and by lanes to the temple are so full of people ,literally all 24 hours.The blaring music from each tea shop competing with that of the next shop renders music,if it can still be called that,at a decibel which can never be imagined by normal music lovers.But still the appreciating nods of people enjoying the tea sitting right in front of the speakers is a sight by itself !

Walking out of the station our Vijay entered the lanes to find a lodge for his stay.He liked a place ,where lot of flower vendors had displayed their flowers in a KOODAI (basket).The fragrance was just enchanting.For a moment his thoughts flashed across to his girl friend,in Madras.In the evening ,when he returned after work, he ran to the elderly vendor and asked her for the price of the flowers,lovely madura malli (jasmine).She answered it was Rs 5 for 1000..He never heard of jasmine sold by numbers.He thought he heard it wrong.When she repeated it again ,he wondered how they would count it and how long they would take to count it.With twentyfive rupees, in his pocket,he thought he would buy 4000 flowers and told her so.

VIJAY..AATHA,please pack 1000 in one and 3000 in a seperate pack.Please sprinkle sufficient water so that it lasts till morning.

AATHA..Enna thambi(what brother)ammakum pondati kuma(is it for your mother and wife)VIJAY..Illa aatha,1000 saami padathukkum,3000 ennoda avalukkum(1000 for Gods photograph and 3000 for my girl)

AATHA...Idha paarupa ..saami ku 1000 maam,avalukku 3000..Koduthu vechava pa ava(look at this !!1000 for God and 3000 for the girl.She is so lucky pa.)

VIJAY..yes aatha,she is so beautiful and the madurai jasmine will look so nice on her curly hair.

Sprinkling just sufficient water ,she packed it and gave it to him.

That was the begining of a long story.Everytime he visited Madurai he used to buy the malli(jasmine ) from AATHA and take it to Chennai.His career path took an exponential growth and his visits to Madurai dropped.But whenever he came to madurai, wherever he stayed ,the visit to buy 4000 malli from aatha was a must.His marriage , birth of his two kids was all updated .Aatha was also becoming old but happiness in meeting an old customer was writ on her wrinkled but cheerful face.

One day vijay made his usual visit to the area where he used to buy the malli.In front of the koodai(basket)was a little girl.As he was enquiring about Aatha,she walked down.AATHA..Enna Thambi Bayundhuteengala(What Brother,You got worried ,Is it ).

Saying this ,she asked the little girl to move and started counting the Mallis.

AATHA..enna thambi romba naal aachu indha pakkam vandhu (what brother its ages since you came this side)

VIJAY..aamam aatha(yes aatha)

AATHA..4000 poothane thambi(4000 jasmine isnt it brother )

VIJAY..Aatha 2000 poo podhum(2000 jasmine enough)

AATHA..En thambi..(Why brother )

VIJAY..Padathula 1000 poo ku mela vekka mudiyadhu

AATHA(the photograph cannot accomodate more than 1000)

AATHAS TEARS WET THE FLOWERS ,THAT DAY

Is the intimacy in Relationships short lived.!!!

2008-05-01T10:18:00.000-07:00

Blogger :Ponnarasi

Blog :Knowledge and Expression

Post Id : Click

Subject : She tries to reason out why the intimacy that we feel initially towards a person gets reduced as time passes.She also emphasizes the importance of Expressing the feeling of intimacy.

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And here is the post itself.

Couple of things kept me busy for a while and here am with a very nice template given by Badri and an inquisitive post.
There are so many people we happen to meet in our life. Among which only with quite few we establish friendship and not all friends make a profound impact in our lives. Friendship is the only word which can be used to define a relation between a 19 year old and 90 year old. There might be a very good friend with whom we share everything that happens around us and as days pass by each of us might get busy with the new phase of life or get busy with the mechanical life. Then the closeness in the relation slowly reduces. Of course we don’t forget the person who was very close to us at some point in life but still we feel something is missing. We still might be in contact with that friend but the voidness in the intimacy would be felt easily.
At every stage of our life, there must be someone very close or someone whom we really liked much. As soon as we think of the days in school, in college or in a particular house or in a street or in an office there must be some one flashing in our mind who was exceptionally close than the rest of the others. I just happened to see a photo of me and one of my friend who was very close to me few years back. Her grandfather had professional contact with dad and then we happened to be more of family friends. She used to stay with us in our house and we have had all kind of pranks and plays and talks. There was nothing that we failed to do together. Now their place is far from ours though we are still in contact. But still the intimacy which we had that time is missing. The situation is worse if there are best friends among which the genders are opposite. And one gets committed to work or to another person in life and again the intimacy is lost. I was just wondering in few relations if the intimacy is very short lived or it appears that way. But I just learnt that never fail to express that you feel great, comfortable with that person at that point of time. Practically speaking being close with all the friends from our childhood is not possible. Express that their presence in your life is valued with your words or a warm hug would speak more than any number of words. At least you can be happy that you made some one feel great about oneself.
Expressing that you are happy because of some one is a great open secret but very rarely we realize and make use of it. May it be between friends or between a student and a teacher or between mom and kid or between husband and wife or in any relation, express their presence in your life is valued and it can never be replaced we will happen to see enigmatic happiness in oneself and in others life as well.
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by Ponnarasi Kothandaramaposted n at 9:47 AM

Facing the heat during summer days

2008-04-26T23:22:00.000-07:00

So summer has arrived and we have to equip our self to face the summer heat. Life is for living happily .To live happily we also have to be aware of certain things. This post tries to provide you with some basic tips for facing the heat. Excessive heat and imbalance can cause some heat related disorders in some persons. Generally it could range from sun burns, heat cramps, heat exhaustion and heat stroke. So here are some simple tips for you.

1. Wear light colored clothes. Let cloth also be not too heavy and thick. Let it cover most part of your skin. Try to use cap or hat and cooling glasses.

2. Try to reduce the outdoor activity during mid hours of the day 11 am to 3 pm. Let the activities be scheduled for morning and evening.

3. Avoid strenuous activities. Try to give yourself gaps when doing activities.

4. Drink plenty of water and fluids .It is better to avoid coffee and alcoholic beverages. Avoid over sugar. Patients with fluid retention problems and with fluid restrictive diets should consult their doctors.

5. Avoid hot foods and heavy meals.

6. Take bath twice a day.

7. Use air conditioners and air coolers if possible.

8. Try to stay as far as possible in shade outside.

9. Replace outdoor walking with brisk walks inside the house or compounds etc.

10. Eat fresh fruits and vegetables that help in heat.

11.Be aware of syptomps of heat disorders (You can check with your doctor regarding this)in you and other and take medical help as necessary.

Disclaimer : The article should not be considered as medical advise.You have to take the help of your doctor for medical advise.

Dealing with Bullying Boss.

2008-04-20T05:36:00.000-07:00

Do you know that many persons leave the company not for Salary or the reputation of the company or job challenges ,but because of a Bad boss !!!
At least once in your life time people get a Boss who is a Bully. It is not uncommon that you would have to get the yell from the boss for some simplest mistake of yours or may be the boss’s own mistake as though it were yours. Worst of all is you would have to get it in front of all. Situation could be very tense and will involve lot of stakes. Your good performance will be undermined .You will become a rat in front of a Tiger. So here are steps that could help you deal with the situation .They are not the only solution but they are like One More Idea to a solution.

1. Learn to answer and deal with the situation calmly. Generally it helps to cool the situation.

2. Remember -do not be a person who would like his reputation to be like the “ultimate king in the office”. Be one among the employees. The fact that you are trying to be over smart can sometimes trigger anger. Be flexible like a tree that sways in the wind. It is natural for the reputation to go up and come down at certain times. Reputation curve is not a straight line. Think it like a stock in stock market that goes up at one time and comes down at some time but still the stock has its own long term value.

3 Try to think in your boss’s perspective and try to see what worries him. You could come to a method to deal with his problems and that helps.

4. Do not also become a “Yes boss “personality .Have your view and put your views before the boss clearly, patiently and calmly.

5. You may sometimes have to talk with the boss. This may be difficult, but better to take up the issue with him.

6. Do not start criticizing the boss .Do not become aggressive and argumentative.

7. Do not exclude yourself from others to satisfy your boss. Be natural and learn to move with all .

8. Some times it is better to ignore certain remarks of the person.

9. Do not always try to keep company of such bosses . Deal with him for what is required and get away.

10. If the torture is excess better try to take it to the HR person and may be you could consider changing the department.

11. In the worst case when nothing works you could consider quitting the job.

12. One golden rule is that you should never compromise your health for your Boss!!!!

Butter Naan

2008-04-18T08:42:00.000-07:00

Here is the method to make tasty and delicious Butter Naan.

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2008-04-18T07:42:00.000-07:00

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Terms of Service

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All the topics provided here are to promote discussions and awareness of the subject only. The articles posted here are not posted by experts in the relevant field.The articles may also represent the individual opinions of the authors contributors or the blog owner.You must consult your consultant(expert in the field) if you want to use any articles ,information, materials etc for your purpose. The articles ,the materials ,informations etc in the blog may not be free from error , wrong statements or omissions. Articles ,informations ,materials etc provided herein may not be guaranteed as to accuracy and completeness. If you use the materials, articles, information, etc from this blog you do it at your own risk and are solely responsible for your actions. The blog Owner -NS or the authors of the posts,the contributors to the blog or any other associated person do not accept any liability for loss or damage arising from the use of this blog ,materials ,articles , information etc from the blog.

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How to prepare for the exams.

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Here are the techniques that i myself used to prepare for the exam.These were very useful to me to tackle volumes of lessons .So here goes the secret.

1.Prepare for a maximum for 2 to 2 1/2 hours at a time .Do not extend it so far.

Your mind will only get tired.

2.Give small gaps while studying.In a study period of 2 hours ,you should at least have gap every half hour.

3.Take notes while studying.Take only the gist .Do not write every thing.You should take key words only to remember.

4.Use maps ,drawings,flowcharts to take notes.It gives a better grasping to the brain.

5.Revise the notes at the following times.After finishing study,before the day end,next day ,that week end,that month end ,6 months etc.First 3 revisions said are a must to remember.

6.Revision should be in the form of a scanning (Just like we sometimes scan Kumudam ,Ananthavikadan and other weekly).

7.Take note of key areas in your study and make a mark.Revise them more.

8.Do not keep on working all the Problems.Compare two problems.Note the changes compared to previous problem.Take note of the new step or the change alone .Revise them as far as possible.This will save you lots of time while preparing for higher studies.

9.Do not watch TV while studying.

Hope these tips will help you.These are not all.But these are some of the key steps.

Hi Friends!!!

2008-04-14T09:16:00.000-07:00

I have been posting in http://www.takeabreak-at-anytime.blogspot.com/ for the past 6 months .The blog features my thoughts my likings etc.Hope to use this blog to post some useful stuffs now and then.This is only a beginning.Hope the blog is useful to you.

A Fraction thought in Universe.!!!

2008-04-14T08:52:00.000-07:00

We all know that we are all a fraction in the universe .So thought why not name the blog as the Fraction thought in the universe as this is my and others thoughts that combine this site.I hope to post some useful,informative ideas in this blog.Hope it has some value.

Happy reading and welcome to the blog.